Born of God - John 3:1-17

March 8, 2020



One of the stories that Christians like to tell (and that you heard last week) is that, in the beginning, there was God.  God created everything, including human beings.  And God took the first two human beings – the man and the woman – and placed them in a garden.

Then God told them, “You can eat from every tree in this beautiful garden. Every tree – except one.  The one in the middle.  The tree of the knowledge of good and evil. Do not eat from that tree.  Because, if you eat from that tree, on that day, you will die.”

So, the man and the woman lived happily together with God in the garden.

One day, one of the creatures that God had made – one that was especially clever – spoke to the woman.  “Did God say you could eat from any tree of the garden?”

“No,” said the woman. “We are not to from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil – or even touch it.  Otherwise, we will die.”

The serpent said, “You won’t die.  Instead, you will become like God.  You will be able to tell the difference between good and evil.”

The woman looked at the fruit of that tree.  It looked both delicious and beautiful.  Not only that, she realized what she would get out of it – wisdom!  So, she took the fruit and ate it.  Then she gave some to the man and he ate.

They didn’t die – unless it was from embarrassment. Their eyes were opened, and, for the first time, they realized they were naked!  They did the best they could – they covered themselves with leaves.  Then they hid from each other and from God.

You know what happens next – God comes looking.  While the man and the woman try to avoid blame, God gets to the bottom of it. They do not die, as God said. But they can no longer stay in the garden. They are banished to the outside world where they will experience suffering.  And, before they go, God gives them a decent set of clothes.

While mostly Christians focus on the act of disobedience and the rupture in the human relationship with God, we tend to forget about the promise of the serpent – you will be like God, knowing good and evil.  As all false promises, it contains a bit of truth.  Otherwise, it wouldn’t be so tempting!  Their eyes are indeed opened!  But telling the difference between good and evil? 

In many ways we can tell the difference between right and wrong (especially if it only concerns other people!), but we spend our lives chasing what we think is good and avoiding what we think is bad, and it turns out in the long run not to be.  “If I just get the right degree,” we think. “If I just get the right job, if I just get the right house, if I just live in the right place, if I just get the right boss, if I just get the right family – then my life will be good and not bad!”

We all have our own lists.  Mine starts out something like – If I can just have one more chocolate chip cookie – if I can just have one more cup of coffee – if I can just read one more book… But, like the meme I saw on Facebook the other day said – “I don’t know how many cookies it takes to be happy, but so far it’s not 27.”

There is goodness in those choices – even in cookies!  Unfortunately, they are not so good as we think they are in creating lasting happiness.  We think we are good at telling what brings us happiness, but actually we are confused.  We are not so good as we think we are at seeing what will be truly beneficial in the long run and what will not.  And we are not so good at realizing that the changes we need to make, in order for our lives to be good, are not outward.  Rather, the change that needs to happen is inward.


I think that’s what Nicodemus doesn’t quite get.

In some ways, Nicodemus’ life was good – very good.  Nicodemus had made it to the top.  He was a Pharisee and a prominent one at that.  He is described as a leader.  He was religiously observant and probably well-to-do.  He may have been especially generous in alms-giving. 

If there was a Who’s Who list in Jerusalem, Nicodemus would have been on it.  But still – it wasn’t enough.  How else do you explain the late-night visit to Jesus?

“Rabbi,” he says, “You must be a teacher who has come from God, because no one could do these miracles you’ve been doing if they hadn’t.”

“That’s correct,” Jesus replies.  “But if you truly want to see God at work, you must be born from above.”

Nicodemus must have gotten a puzzled look on his face.  “How can that happen once you’ve grown up?  You’re not suggesting that a grown man like me can reenter his mother’s womb, are you?”

“No,” Jesus went on.  “That’s how birth in the flesh takes place.  And you must be born in the flesh to be in this world.  But the person on the inside is another matter.  For that person to be born, it takes God.  You can’t do it on your own.  You need God – the Spirit of God.  Just like you can’t control the wind – you can’t make the wind blow and you can’t make it stop – so you can’t control God’s Spirit.  That’s the birth I’m talking about.”

Nicodemus was still having a hard time understanding. “I don’t get it.  How can this be?”

Jesus said, “Let me make this as plain as I can – You remember the snakes in the wilderness?  The people were refusing to trust God, so God sent snakes to bite them.  Many became sick.  When they cried out to God for help, God told Moses to hold up a bronze serpent for them to see.  And those who looked on the serpent that Moses lifted up were saved.  In the same way, the Son of Man must be lifted up on the cross, so that those who see him and trust him will be brought back to God.

“What it all boils down to is this – God loved the world so much that he was even willing to give his own Son out of love for a rebellious world.  God wants to save the world – the whole world and everything in it – not out of anger, but out of love.”

If you are still as confused as Nicodemus – and as confused as I often am about this – let me recommend I John 4.  There John explains:

God’s love was revealed among us in this way: God sent his only Son into the world so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the atoning sacrifice for our sins. Beloved, since God loved us so much, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God lives in us, and his love is perfected in us. (I John 4:9-12)

How are we born from above?  It is through the power of God’s love.  This love is most clearly shown on the cross.  It is love that does not condemn, but saves.  In that love, Jesus draws all people to himself.  In that love, we are born. In that love – the love with which God first loved us – we are transformed.


Christians like to tell another story that comes near the beginning. Although its climax comes at the end of Genesis, it is a story of transformation that is also a solution to what happens in the garden.

It is the story of Joseph – not the guardian of Jesus, the husband of Mary – the son of Jacob – wearer of the coat of many colors.

Joseph, in fact, was the eleventh son of Jacob, but he was still his father’s favorite, probably because he was the first child born to his true love, Rachel.  Of course, this does not sit well with his ten older brothers. It doesn’t help matters that Joseph also has dreams of grandeur.  One day, they get fed up, take his precious coat and throw Joseph down into a pit.  They want to kill him, but think better of it.  Instead, they sell him to slave traders on their way to Egypt.  They tell their father that he has been mauled by a lion and present him with the shreds of the coat.

This deeply grieves Jacob, but it also grieves Joseph.  He was having great childhood up to that point.  Perhaps we could even call him a spoiled child.  Now he is a slave far from home.  He is bought by Potiphar, an officer in the pharaoh’s army.  It goes well with Joseph there.  He becomes Potiphar’s most trusted slave.  But when his wife accuses Joseph of trying to seduce her, Potiphar flies into a rage and has Joseph thrown down into prison.

When Joseph is in prison, things go well with him. He gains the trust of the prison warden, who puts him in charge of the care of all the prisoners. Because of this Joseph meets two important men – the royal cupbearer and the royal baker – who had both offended the Pharaoh in some way.  Joseph correctly interprets their dreams.  The cupbearer regains his position while the baker loses his head.  Before the cupbearer returns to court, Joseph asks him to remember Joseph, but the cupbearer forgets.  Until one day, the Pharaoh himself has dreams no one can make sense of. 

Then the cupbearer says, “Oh, there was this guy in prison who correctly interpreted my dream and the dream of the baker.  Maybe he can help.”

So, Joseph was summoned. He told the pharaoh that his dreams meant there would be seven bountiful years followed by seven lean years.  Joseph advised him the stockpile the extra during the seven plentiful years so that people would not starve during the famine.  Pharaoh was so impressed that he put Joseph in charge of it all.

When the famine comes, Joseph’s brothers come seeking food.  To make a long story short, they are reunited and end up bringing their father to Egypt to live with them.

Eventually, the old man dies.  The brothers say to each other, “With Pop out of the way, nothing will stop Joseph from taking his revenge on us.  Let’s tell him that Jacob told us to tell him to forgive us.”

So, that’s the story they feed Joseph. But Joseph says, “Am I in the place of God? What you intended for evil, God intended for good, that many people might be saved from starvation, as you can see.  So, don’t be afraid. I will care for you and your children.”

Remember the temptation of the serpent?  “You will not die; you will become like God, knowing good and evil.” Joseph’s words are a refutation of that temptation – I am not like God; I do not know the difference between good and evil.

I believe that it was through his continued trust in God’s love for him in the face of all his suffering that brought about a change in Joseph.  It was a change that allowed him to serve others so that they might be spared from suffering.  It was change that allowed him to love his brothers and not take revenge.  It was a change that was rooted in God’s love for him and for the world.

Again, from I John (4:7-8) – Beloved, let us love one another, because love is from God; everyone who loves is born of God and knows God…for God is love.   

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